AUTISM, ADHD, DEPRESSION, AUTOIMMUNE DISEASES, DIABETES and SUICIDE
Is there any unknown hidden relation?
WHY and HOW to prevent. We may regret if you do not know these answers.
A stress moment can kill a student.
A stress moment can kill a banker
A stress moment can kill a ceo
A stress moment can kill a politician
They are strong but the severe stress moment can have affected all their life. It embeded in their brain, cell, the organ that we do not consciously know but the subconscious mind know that moment: smell, sound, noise, invisible signal then create the conditioned responses to it.
You see
Soldiers in Vietnam wars ended 1975 are still under stress with any mild similar unwanted triggers.
It is there even we consciously know it or not: conditioned response or hysterical conditioned responses.
How about a fragile kid who is forming the brain in stress.
Most of all are calm them down by 1. Unconditional love; 2. Connection: people, animal, nature, parents; 3. Unstressed environment: happy, warm, cheering; then make them have 4. Ability to deal with facts of life - the fact that some people may think is a big threat, problems, or danger, for example, " being sad NO, some kid may anger and stress to rebel.
Simple breathing meditation helps children better than medication in ADHD and Autism. Father said: the day autistic child happy he will less overreact than a stressful day.
Realy good with meditation. It calm the mind, bring the mind to the body. Live in mindfulness by simple breath. Daniel Goleman the author of Emotional intelligence has told story of applying simple breathing meditation in elementary school in chaos areas. It work.
When you nervous, anxiety, people usually advise you to calm down and breath slowly, deeply.
How to start:
Observe the body when breathing in and out. Or stick a small object on the lower abdomen near then let the kid breath in and breath out with observing the moving.
This kind of breath bring the mind of kid back to present. Kid does not have to live with the fear or stress of the past or future. When the mind at peace with body, the good chemical flush the brain and repair the defect in the brain. Zen masters are the mind master.
Three stress chemicals are: epinephrine and norepinephrine: this make the muscle stiffer, breath slower, quicker, act, quicker, and stronger: stress or angry kid, stress adults tend to beat others, break the object, throw the object, dare to fight. This is the hormone for fight or flight, it is same in animal. Blood reduce in from the skin and other organ to the vital organs for fight: pale skin, low energy.
The third chemical is cortison: to prepare the energy in glucose, high energy ready in the body for fight and flight, it reduces the function of immune system and all other organs: chronic stress may be exhausted the body and impair the organ.
Connect all effects, and the side effect of cortisone, epinephrine, and norepinephrine are described well in pharmacology books, so list them all down, it is the symptoms of stress people.
In psychology they overreact, want to be alone, and have abnormal behavior: it is the instinct of the weak in a stressful environment in the hope of find out safety for the self.
By Observing, parents can know the early symptoms or pattern of stress, unsafety in children since they are one week, one month or two-month-old or three months old babies to predict the problems they get: ADHD, Autism, or...
Just by remember all the signals you have when you fear: dog, cat, rat, snake. or hysterical anxiety: a stranger come to your home, only your baby alone, you have to go the party: you will fear, overreact and do not want to eat at all. Or put a glass cage of snake in the corner of your child's bed, you may sleep in stress, fear, screaming or overreact. Even you know that the cage is 100% safe.
Family is the only place where the enemies sleep shares the bed. But all will sleep with the stress hormonal, very tired, terrible sleep: because they do not find trust or safety from the partner. It is devastating to both wife and husband. But the baby bear it all: infant with fragile, sensible brain. The immature brain is forming in stress.
UNFORTUNATELY, THE LEVEL OF STRESS IN THE MIND IS UNLIMITED, BUT THE PREPARE OF THE PHYSICAL BODY IS LIMITED.
When the blood pressure high, glucose high, the organ may send the feedback signal for the brain ro stop secreating hormon. The brain still wants to raise the preparation of the body to higher level to prepare for fight and flight. The brain may see other organs as the preventer or obstructors. The immune system start to attack its own organs: the autoimmune diseases.
- Only the beta cell pancreas be destroyed by immunes system
- other strange, could not understand the mechanisim of autoimmune system: why it only attck ignorantly or intelligently attack one kind of cell, and let the nearby cell untouched.
How about happy chemicals: 3 chemical
- Dopamine: when you get a goal, finish a task, achieve a purpose, finish a job, win lottery: gambling, betting. Get hits, like or good comment on Facebook, Get good grade. There are changes in the eye when people joy because of dopamine: when you find a big bargain in a buying, your purple widen. Excessive dopamine can increase the heartbeat, shaking or collapsing.
The visible signs effects and side effects of dopamine on body are listed on all pharmacology books.
- endorphin: reduce pain, stiffness. when you work hard, exercise hard, you will feel very little pain at all.
- Serotonin: comes when you get close contact: skin to skin, kiss, hugs, embracing, intimating acts. Or the feeling of belonging and significant. Dogs can make the owner have this feelings. When doing good, kind, and helping others. An act of goodness: the doer, the receiver and the watcher.
Dopamine and Serotonin is the chemical that all psychic medication used to increase in patients. All medication cure depression aim at this.
And the last chemical is oxytocin: sex, love, skin contact, and giving birth are high in this.
Scientists find that oxytocin may help autistic mice, they will do more research in future to apply to the autistic child. And all domestic animals can help autistic kids.
They do not know that these happy chemicals are secreted when they are treated well with each other with love, close contact, connection, supporting and suitable environment.
So by observing the pattern of behaviors, you can understand the state of mind of you and other people.
In peaceful environment: " kids feel safe enough to do more, try more, play more and fail more. Gradually, kids increase skill, talent, strength, and ability with ages.
In stressful environment: " kids do not feel safe so all the activities are to focus on creating safe: do to safe. They afraid of doing more, try more, they lack total essential skill. Speaking, walking, and others activities are never easy job with stressed kids. they tend to less interested, indifferent in things."
These combinations of four factors: love, connection, stressful environment, abilities from instinct and learning can explain well the rainbow of autism, the distribution of autism in male and female, city or countryside. ADHA, depression, mental illness, suicide, and many other diseases also.
Take all difficulties, problems as chances to connect, talk, and understand the child. The child may do this because he/she can not calm down the stress, irritation inside and he/she do not fully understand what he/she doing. Do not take this chance to make hurt. But make love and understanding. Do not make them stress. Support unconditional love, connection with people, nature, create a peaceful environment and build their strengths, ability. You have to change your thinking, assumption, wrong scientific conclusion to save your child. Your child may act as you are under stress. Remember. Overract, withdraw and want to stay alone. You need some ones to feel trust, safe, not to teach you if you do not understand.
Do not make them stress. Support unconditional love, connection with people, nature, create peaceful environment and build their strengths, ability. You have to change your thinking, assumption, wrong scientific conclusion to save your child. Your child may act as you are under stress. Remember. Overreact, withdraw, and want to stay alone. You need someones to feel trust, safe, not to teach you if you do not understand
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Citation
Van D. Dao.(2017). Awaken You Wonderful we: How do we create heaven on earth?The secret of one-page table reveal all the real causes of all phenomena and problems: Ability, Autoimmune diseases, Belief system, Gut feelings, Hysteria, Learning, Learning difficulties, Mental problems, ADHD, Alcohol use disorders, Anxiety disorders, Autism, Behavioral disorders, .. Talent. https://www.amazon.com/Awaken-you-wonderful-phenomena-problems/dp/1549843524
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