X - factor: Van Duy Dao

Van Duy Dao from Vietnam, is a pharmacist, learner of personal development. Philosophy in studying is lifelong learning, from everyone, everywhere and study in joy, happiness from the drive inside.

The school with teachers: books, internet, video, forum, every people; Van's teachers is also the well-known speakers, authors: Stephen Covey, Jim Rohn, Brian Tracy, Peter Drucker, John. C Maxwell, Daniel Pink, Jim Collin, Jame Allens, Napoleon Hill, Dale Carnegie, Seth Godin, Micheal Porter, Darren Hardy, Richard Branson, Tony Robbin, Daniel Goleman, Malcolm Gladwell, Wayne Dyer, Hanh Thich Nhat, Richard Mathieu, and many successful authors. Most of the authors value the attitude, principles, virtue, brain, and mind to the success but there are little support evidence and a lot of debating in society.

The author is proud to be a pharmacist, but he is ashamed of the failure of knowledge and the medication in healing many UN-KNOWN Causes. Most of the medications only make temporal relief and many medications chronic patients have to take in their lifetime. Worst of all: mental illness, depression, ADHD, Autism, suicide, and gunfire, social problems seem to go against all the advancement in economic, standard living and Giant leap in technology. He keeps on searching.

The author's advantage is the general knowledge of medicine, physiology, psychology, pharmacology, management, marketing, selling, persuading, motivating, AND best of all the author has chances to mix: Eastern Philosophies: Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism which full of paradoxical subtle profound knowledge in the art of living, virtues, purposeless, pace of nature to gain success, happiness, and inner-peace in daily life; and logical concrete Western philosophy: Questioning, reasoning, purposefulness, logical philosophy, scientific philosophy.

The author keeps on reading, searching, reflecting, questioning and meditating to find the correct answers to all human problems. Zen Buddhism or meditation helps the author understand: "Shallow ignorant apply of Eastern philosophy not only makes people fail in making the success but also gaining happiness. They may suffer misery because of their greed, anger, and ignorance"

"Shallow ignorant apply of Western philosophy may not only make people fail in making money, getting rich but also make people fail in enjoying success, happiness, and miracles of life. Shallow applying makes people constantly waste time on arguing and debating. They may suffer misery because of their greed, anger, and ignorance" 

"By applying the techniques in Buddhism meditation, people can experience the values of the old's teachings. Understand the values, principles of life, the lacking of modern society. Then find the available every day's scientific proofs to prove wrong and right in the teaching of philosophers, religious leaders, sages and successful people. Strong available scientific proofs help the most in persuading people. Make them awaken with the wrong and right in their doings. 

The author may think that he find the unwanted answer: Who are human beings? What is the purpose of human life?

Best of all, the author may find the real causes of many dreadful chronic problems, and simple real cures for this in the simple, understandable languages.

Who am I?

Who are you?

Why do you speak your language which is very difficult for me?

Why do you have your religious?

Are you ok if someone mistakenly spells your name wrong?

WHAT IS THE TIME? what time is it in your country?

IS THERE ANY RELATION BETWEEN HUMAN BEINGS?

My answer

Time is the assumption of Relativity to make we understand the relatives of Phenomena. 

Time is the illusion/definition that let us know the relativity of things. 1 second equal the N times of an Electron traveling around it Atom. So time is the assumption of moment moving. 

From the second we have the hour and the day. 

Time is relative. 

If American, Vietnamese, Chinese, Germany goes to live on the Moon, What is the day they will have? When will they celebrate the New Year? 

In time there is motion. And some scientist can write the equation without time. Just Emotion.

time, space, weight, length all of these appear in the definition of other. 

So the world is interdependent. We try to separate is to support for better of thinking, communicating, and developing. It is just Assumption.

I am FROM THE WORLD. SOLAR SYSTEM, GALAXY. 2018.

all in one; one in all. Do not forget that we are interdependent, We are one. We share the same sources. Billions have died born and disappear, events also. And the mass of earth does not change. You exhale the air other inhale, you eat the things have sourced from the waste of others. .... When we realize, we will free from Depression, fear, anxiety, and anger, and free from the Fights and Flights at home, work and in bed. 

WE WILL FREE FROM ALL TERMINOLOGIES OF PROBLEMS IN PHYSICAL HEALTH, WEALTH AND LIVING.

Look at the wars, the wars of religions. We will find that GOD DO NOT BLESS THEM, GOD DO NOT HELP THEM. THEY DO BLESS THEM. 

AND Mind masters like to play the game of thorn to code the mind of millions of people.

GOD DO NOT BLESS THEM. THEY BLESS THEM, WE BLESS THEM. GIVE HAND TO EVEN THE SMALLESTEffects, side effects of stress hormones controlled by Brain cover all symptoms of ADHD, Gut Feeling, Autistic spectrum. What do u think?

Do you know conditioned response? Your language, skill, driving skills, professions, the pattern of behaviors and pattern of emotion, fear or anxiety or excitement are CONDITIONED RESPONSES. Even Walking, naming, ritual, taboos are coded in the mind of people, dogs, or tamed animals as conditioned responses. infant left in Jungle will have the conditioned responses of the animals which adopt him. Maybe he will like to crawl instead of walk.

WHAT HAPPENS if golden time: formation of the brain and vital social skills lack vital things? Forget the useless assumption. As I know, many Ph.D. have the highest degree in psychology but do not live well with husband and family, rigid knowledge does not help us much.

This will help you a little: 

http://www.awakenyouwonderfulwe.com/2018/01/simple-mediation-and-teaching-of-thich.html?m=1

Love is verb, right understanding is unconditional love, how to get the right understanding?

Love is a verb, right understanding is unconditional love, how to get the right understanding?

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Love is the action. It means when you love someone. You should put heart in the action you do for your lovers. Love is serving with heart. We have to learn the love of Jesus, Buddha and Mother Teresa. They have real love; they love people without any expectation, which called the unconditional love. When a man loves a woman, he has love in all actions like serving, caring, flirting, making the surprise, helping, motivating, sharing, respecting. Real love no need of return.

Mother Teresa did not demand anything when helping the one needed help. From caring, helping she gained the greatest joy and happiness than any bodies else. With love, everything was the marvel to her; she found joy and happiness in everything, the power of love so great that she created the greatest legacy with little resources. Love is action, a man in love find joy and happiness in any actions they do for their lover. He finds happiness in responsibility also. We can easily imagine a man in happiness in every action, he is dancing, jumping, smiling, cheering, singing, walking and opening all. The individual in love never thinks of doing any harm to the lover. The observer can easily see the pattern of happiness in the action of a man in love. Mother loves her child unconditionally; she can sacrifice her life to save her child in danger. Her love is immeasurable. A girl does not need to see ask advice to know if he loves her, just finding is the happiness in him when staying with you, when do with you. He is controlled by the highest emotion so that he can do many silly things. If he loves you, play with you with too much consciousness, perhaps he does not love you enough.

If people in love but expect in return: “I serve her, I care for her, I give her flower. In return, I want her to do good to me. She does not do good to me, it makes me a little bit sad.” Hold on, she does not do good back to you, and you said. You see, love with expecting is like exchanging. It is not loved. Expecting can kill your love. With expectation, you do thing consciously, you are pulling out of a moment of action to the expectation. It makes the action unnaturally. If you receive less than expectation, you can become angry, you can harm her.

The fact is, love with expectation mean "I love myself" not “I love her”. It is a selfish love, greedy love. People misunderstand that they love themselves but they think they love others. Sometimes they think they do good action in love as a sacrifice. The greedy love can hurt for both. Love that is still clinging, giving but still looking forward to receiving, waiting for returning is the love of selfish person; it is not generous love to other, but the selfish love for themselves. The selfish love makes people feel pain or hard in the action. When making the action of love instead of finding happiness as the unconditional love, they find pain, hard work or even misery. It looks like an exchanging in the relationship. With unconditional love or real love, people find happiness, joy and energy in action for both doer and receiver. On the other hand, with selfish love, to some extent, people find misery, pain and exhausted in action. Selfish love can create misery or stress for both people. So that if a girl read any signs caused by happiness chemical from a man when he thinks or dates with her, it means he likes or loves her; because he is doing the things that he loves the most. The belief deep inside harmony with the outside action to create the action, he finds happiness. If a girl can find any signs of stress chemical from a man when he is dating or doing kind work to her, it means that he finds stress in action, deep belief inside contradict with outside activities. He has to use conscious mind alone to take action, it is exhausted, overworked, some time can make him stress. The experienced people can see the pretending smile from him, or have the gut feelings when hearing he laughs.

People tell lies to have the stress signal also. Observe ordinary people telling lies, we can find the embarrassing behaviors in them. The unconscious mind detects the mind bad consequences from the lying, so it creates the signal of a little stress. People telling lie do not have eye contact, do not see direct eye to eye, the pupil shrinks, tension muscle, up the heartbeat, sweating and many other symptoms of stress, so that the words are not naturally. The degree of symptoms stress may vary a lot from people to people. The experienced individual can have the feeling of chill or gut feeling if he sees a man telling lies, which may lead to serious consequences, without any stress signal on the face, voice or gestures and without the signal of emotion. The experienced man will pay special attention to him.

Parents also need unconditional love for their children. The conditional love express: “parents love you so you need to do this”, and “parents love you so you need to do that to make parents happy.” to make your parents happy; otherwise, children will be fined, beaten, burned books, torn clothes if the children do not obey the order of parents and adults. Look closely, they are invisible braces that splint the arms and legs of their children. Selfish parents make children eat, work and study without any passion, no curiosity, and no excitement. They just follow the instructions of adults. Kids are like the puppets of their parents; parents use love, orders, rewards, punishments, and emotion to control the puppets. Sadly, in Vietnam, the kids have many splints from their adults like grandparents, parents, brothers, sisters, friends, and teachers; who are so blindly violating the basic need of freedom of the kids; the need of freedom they forget that they also ask for and complain all day at work, clubs, and in society because of lacking freedom.

 We use love as splints to splint the two legs, the two hands and the behaviors of our children unconsciously. Interfere the kids' behaviors by their parents may create passive children; because parents dictate the children what to do and what not to do because of their love; kids rarely make anything by themselves so that they are very self-deprecatory, low self-esteem. Kids never have a sense of conquest, of victory to proud of, they get everything done by their parents. The blind love of parents take all the chance for hands, legs, eyes, ears, and head to do its job; parents repeatedly serving for their children to satisfy unwanted needs of their children; they unconsciously spoilt their children. Kids grow up in the environment where everything is ready-made by parents not only lack the skills but also have much more wants, desires than normal kids. When the desires are not satisfied, kids become angry with screaming, shouting, rebelling to ask for things they want. Time after time, parents with selfish love blindly create the bad habits of their kid's many desires, anger, and ignorance; these are the causes of misery.

Lao Tzu taught "instructions without interference". We as parents should draw out the destinations, expectations, visions, with the principle and values, then use love and patience to encourage our children and let them do their own. Our love and support are good enough for the kids to feel safe to take more challenge in life. Our children will surprise us with their creativity and ingenuity. The temperaments like self-confidence, self-esteem, self-reliance, initiative and proud of victory created by the process of working. Do not love your children so blindly that make tired, harmful to children and related individuals.

Stephen Covey taught about how to heal the relationship in the family for a husband: "love her" "But I do not love her anymore" "Dear friend, you are wrong, love is a verb; love is action, not emotion. People are in love have passionate action for the one they love". “so if you have to love her to heal relationship, you have to take numerous action to care for her: making her surprised, taking care of her, picking her up, dating with her, taking care the children for her, helping her the housework. Many think you can do if you really want to relive the love. Do it unconditionally.”

With children having problems need the unconditional love from their parents the most to repair the problems inside. They are need guiding without interfering with their parents when they have done the work, they feel proud and confident from the inside. The children having the problem already have the problem so that parents should not expect too much from them. The unsatisfied expectation can make parents anger and hurt, which in return will hurt the children. Love your kids without condition; welcome all the good things and bad things to your children, celebrate with them, guiding without interfering, give support to make kids feel safe enough to take more action, to make changes and corrections if needed. Especially the children with a mental problem, who are in stress, need so much love, connection and support from parents to have the feeling of happiness. The happiness and the chemical of happiness secreting in the brain and body is the best cure for mental problems. When taking action of love, practice three things: simplicity, patience, and compassion.

Count the Aha moment you have!

The real cause of-of human problems: Autism, Depression, and Stress

The hidden relation of autism, adhd, and depression which reveal the effective cause and cure.

Some good signs have shown me that I am on the right way. I love to help more:

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"The hidden relation of autism, ADHD, and depression which reveals the effective cause and cure." 

As you see, they lack social skills, they cannot talk: language is the product of living environment - as your native language and my native language, we speak it naturally without thinking at all. We are not born with our native language, so I doubt their connection with their living environment and/or the state of mind that they can not/don't want to learn. You can test them with Aesop fables(they do not understand), pretending game - they do not understand, interacting, communicating or persuading. 

They are in the low level of this. For official test: you can test them with EQ test, and Aesop stories, metaphors. All these low-level vital skills make them never feel safe, connection to the environment: it makes them stress. Over time, it makes the downward spiral that make them more and more lack of social skills and suffer more stress.

ALL IN ONE, ONE IN ALL: 

Dear Neurologist, psychiatrist, sociologist, gastroenterologist, urologist, educators, sleep therapists, cardiologist, language therapists, educators, trainers, teachers: there is no separation in the health of heart, stomach, muscle, cognitive thinking, sleeping, hormone system: all are interdependent and under the state of mind. IT IS THE ADVANTAGES OF EASTERN PHILOSOPHY AND THE BASIC OF EASTERN TRADITIONAL MEDICINE.

PARETO IN HEALTH/MEDICINE

Remember when working with the MIND: irrational mind, the giant brain evolved for millions of years, illogical mind and Placebo effects, Neuro-plasticity, Mirror neurons, self affirmation, self-talk, nocebo effects, T1/2 of all substances, taboos, rituals, religious belief, compound effects, CONDITIONED RESPONSES, and MAGICAL ADAPTABILITY, ILLUSIVE MIND, Self healing/destroying, IRRATIONAL THINKING, Subliminal message, Marketing of luxury brand, and Hysteria: what do we feed the mind of beings everyday? 

AND what if all of these lead to negativity or positivity? Maybe Outliers or Failures!

5 mins of rapping can affect whole life.

5 mins of abusing can make victims fear whole life

1 mins of bombing, earthquake, fear, hysterical stress the killing can affect their whole life.

It creates the conditioned of Fight and Flight that they can not consciously control.

They rarely joy

It is said by genes

So they accept it as gifts

Or nobles term, not diseases

Even they take more expensive medication than others.

How I know they are under stress: read their behaviors, read the body language. In stress state, stress chemicals: adrenalin, noradrenalin, and cortisol will dominate the body. The effect is listed in any medical book, look closer we can see all these effects are available in kids, to some extents, the effects caused by stress chemicals are the best answer for the autistic rainbow. 

Sorry, they are not happy with the label GIFTED.

Yes: all in one, one in all. 

Do you think they are stress because of lacking social skills so the suffer stress during interaction: even in families, school, and society? So they do not have a chance to learn, to grow and gain the vital skills. We are not alone the victims. And to some extent, one not only the victims but also the creators.

REDEFINE OF STRESS

The right definition of stress: human beings have basic human needs described by Abraham Maslow. Anything threatens of satisfying these needs will lead to Fight and Flight responses. IF people cannot change the situation, threaten, they will be the victims of STRESS AND STRESS HORMONES.

Real needs of beings and real lack of modern people: we can make the qualitative or quantitative studies to see the effects of these four factors:

1. Unconditional love: love with greed, anger, ignorance is not real love. Right love should be with UNDERSTANDING: the self, other, and situation.

2. Connection: people, animal, diversified nature, understanding with parents: technology cut all chance of connection and make poor of any connection people have( speaking, native language, habit, belief, the pattern of thinking, religious belief, and rituals, taboos are products of connection to the environment)

3. Chances or suitable problems to build muscle, the ability to help them deal with the fact of life. (The way of self-made millionaires raise their kids)

4. Unstressed environment: happy, warm, cheering; then make them have the feeling of safety, certainty to work, try, play, do and fail... they have more skill and abilities to deal with the needed problems, the challenge in life.

Understand the characters of problems, we will know the hidden Causes: We are an interdependent world: no single cause create all thing, but all things are in the interdependent web. So how can we blame for food, genes, chemicals, guns, drugs for our problems?

We may think genes of the family: WHAT IF GENE IS PRODUCT OF ENVIRONMENT as genes of Cold/Hot weather? They interact in the hidden web, to some extent, just a Blink (Malcolm Gladwell)!

EARLY DETECTION AND INTERVENTION

EARLY DETECTION AND INTERVENTION CAN BE DONE SINCE 2,3 OR 4 MONTHS OLD: READ ALL THE THINGS WE SEE: pay attention to the responses, interested, sleeping, eating, crying, talking and smile back, shaking hands and body when parents talk directly to them. Do this regularly, you if you see the signs of not paying attention or indifference: the early signs of stress, over time children, may get more severe problems in the brain and mental problems. Parents can have the best early simple intervention. READ FIGHT, FLIGHT or INDIFFERENCE SIGNALS.

Do you have gut feelings that we all of the problems we treat depend on the state of mind? The fluctuation of state of mind may determine the quality of treating. The symptoms may reduce when patients feel better, in a good state of peace of mind (Zen masters, happy men are the ones use the least medicine)

The highest teaching of Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Jesu teaches about love, kindness, and golden rules. Yin - Yang, Buddhism, Lao Tzu teach about the emptiness, egoless, nothingness of the interdependent world, so the best way of living in that society is to treat well with others. Go against that, or living with three poisons: Greed, Anger, and Ignorance: we will suffer? So Who suffer first in the angry, greedy communities, and how is the mechanism require the join hands of all people?

Language is a vital skill: with connect variation of sound to specific meaning, it is not easy at all, but it takes times and supports to gain it; it is skilled as others skills that they lack: learning skills mainly not caused by genes!

SUFFERING WORLD!

Maybe Effects of stressed mind on brain, body, world? In mind, the brain we called mental problems, insomnia, headache, suicide problems, social problems.

Effects of stress on the stomach, intestine we called the stomach problems, gastrointestinal problems; on heart, vein, we call cardiovascular diseases. 

Stress on the school: school problems

Stress on the world we called human problems, which may lead to World War.

Stress start from the state of mind. It is in the cluster: suicide, autism, ADHD, depression have the same hidden cause. We still cheat yourself that the soaring number of autism, ADHD, and depression come from diagnosing... no, we are wrong. These problems have hidden relations; the number of suicide goes also goes with other numbers. And death from suicide does not come from DIAGNOSING!

The light at the end of the tunnel: Nick Vujicic, Hellen Keller, Franklin D. Rosevelt, Steven Hawking, Paralympic athletes are disabled.

As pharmacists, we do not dispense prescribed medication to healthy ones.

ASKING THE SAGE: "HOW THERE ARE SO VARIOUS PEOPLE?" HE SAID: "ONLY BABIES ARE BORN!" and he smiled: " We are living on heavenly earth." " It is Nature, not God"

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Van Duy Dao from Vietnam, born 1986, is a pharmacist, learner of personal development. Philosophy in studying is lifelong learning, from everyone, everywhere and study in joy, happiness from the drive inside. The school with teachers: books, internet, video, forum, every people; Van's teachers is also the well-known speakers, authors: Stephen Covey, Jim Rohn, Brian Tracy, Peter Drucker, John. C Maxwell, Daniel Pink, Jim Collin, Jame Allens, Napoleon Hill, Dale Carnegie, Seth Godin, Micheal Porter, Darren Hardy, Richard Branson, Tony Robbin, Daniel Goleman, Malcolm Gladwell, Wayne Dyer, Hanh Thich Nhat, Richard Mathieu, and many successful authors. Most of the authors value the attitude, principles, virtue, brain, and mind to the success but there are little support evidence and a lot of debating in society. The author is proud to be a pharmacist, but he is ashamed of the failure of knowledge and the medication in healing many UN-KNOWN Causes. Most of the medications only make temporal relief and many medications chronic patients have to take in their lifetime. Worst of all: mental illness, depression, ADHD, Autism, suicide, and gunfire, social problems seem to go against all the advancement in economic, standard living and Giant leap in technology. He keeps on searching. The author's advantage is the general knowledge of medicine, physiology, psychology, pharmacology, management, marketing, selling, persuading, motivating, AND best of all the author has chances to mix: Eastern Philosophies: Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism which full of paradoxical subtle profound knowledge in the art of living, virtues, purposeless, pace of nature to gain success, happiness, and inner-peace in daily life; and logical concrete Western philosophy: Questioning, reasoning, purposefulness, logical philosophy, scientific philosophy. The author keeps on reading, searching, reflecting, questioning and meditating to find the correct answers to all human problems. Zen Buddhism or meditation helps the author understand: "Shallow ignorant apply of Eastern philosophy not only makes people fail in making the success but also gaining happiness. They may suffer misery because of their greed, anger, and ignorance"

Thank you for your support, thank you all.

Lifelong learning from: Looking, Watching and Contemplating

Lifelong learning from Looking, Watching and Contemplating

From Awaken you wonderful we

1.       Watching a strong girl screaming and running away when seeing a cockroach, I understand the power of character and the weakness of knowledge and intelligence.

2.       Watching a healthy fainted when seeing someone is bleeding, I understand the power of things in his mind and the weakness of the strong muscles and assumed intelligence.

3.       Watching a young, healthy man running away and left his friend behind when seeing the danger, I understand the power of characters is more important than the power of muscle and power of knowledge.

4.       Watching a small dog bravely attack bigger dog to protect his owner, I understand the obsessed desires, and brave is more important than strong muscle and big muscles.

5.       Understanding the fears, roots of fears, the drives, habits, and behaviors make me understand deeper about human beings, and the hidden of a powerful mind.

6.       Watching a well-known manager scolding his staffs then taking home the properties of the company when no one saw, I understand the importance of characters, virtues, and compassionate mind than ever before.

7.       Watching a rich man wearing many luxury things, like praising, boasting then angrily scolding his staffs for a small error, I understand the power of character, intelligence, wealthy, healthy, and contentment.

8.       Watching many handsome intelligent men misery because of losing money in gambling still try to find a way to play gambling, I understand what is the most important to a man. 

9. Watching a successful manager like to accumulating, possessing, taking, making big profit and celebrating, then taking drugs at home for sleep, quiet mind, and at ease, I understand what is the deeper needs of mind of beings and what is the real hunger of the rich.

10.    Watching the joy of children play in nature, with natural objects: carrot, potato, flower, sand, rock, earth, tree, grass and fruit; and natural creatures: fish, chicken, dog, cat, duck, and so on. Then watching they play indifferently with plastic objects, emotionlessly playing in artificial environment, artificial flower, bored with playing with intelligent robots, intelligent robot shaped dog. I understand the vitality, sophistication of nature that human beings only understand very little. Children may jump, sing, dance, and smile with dog, cat, and duck in water but they may never do that with the intelligent robots with dog-shaped, cat-shaped, and duck-shaped in luxury car, or shinning castle. We need to understand more our children’s deepest needs. We need to understand the hunger of the children in wealthy and prosperous.

11.     Watching the science document films, I understand that the most sophisticated technology and printing can only print the object shaped orange; they can never print out the real orange had the same in countless varieties for our children to eat. To have a real orange as soon as possible, scientists only have to figure out the way to speed up the process of making fruit of orange trees. They will take a long time to understand what is nature really is let alone creating an apple had the same characters of the real apple? Not understanding, how they can create? At least, they can create an object that all sense of people cannot recognize the differences by all human senses; they cannot create the same object.

12.    Living, studying, sleeping, working, and walking in the artificial boxes cuts all chances for people to get connection with mysterious nature. They will be out of balance then creating more out of balance. This finding make me awake with the problem of our society

13.    Watching the tribes in the Amazon jungle, I think of the living of modern human ancestors. To have modern human beings as we are today, our ancestors have to study, do, think and create need changes inside out to adapt well with the slowly changes of nature. Too much and to fast changes of nature means too big the problems, too much pressure can destroy the whole tribes, communities and nations. So the needed temperate changes, temperate pressures have pushed our ancestors to study, do, think, create and invent. In other world, the needed temperate changes in nature and society have made human ancestors evolved to have strength, abilities and power to live well. This is true for all of us: infants, kids, students, adults, employees, and the old also.

14.    Watching a lot of successful men, women, well-fed children and who have a high standard of living have to take a lot of medications, sedative medications, and painkiller medication to have temporary at easy and good feelings. Some of them even taking drugs, committing crimes, and committing suicide, I awake with what are really the hunger of modern people, the power of characters, ability, understanding and the real lacking of modern society. I understand the root of our society’s problems: greed, anger and ignorance, and lack of characters.

15.    Watching a successful father angrily scolding and crucially beating his children even they are screaming, crying and saying sorry so many times. Then the father turned back to the wife shouting that he has to sacrifice all his time, money, energy, and even his life for his children but they do not obey his advice, do not know his sacrificing and his suffering. I understand that the characters like love, compassion, talking for understanding, kind heart, open-minded and mastering the art of using golden rules are much more important than IQ, intelligence, wealth and powerful muscles.
The new philosophy of relation between brain, mind, body, physical health, ego

16.    Reading human history, human wars, I understand that pace of nature, the laws of life and the paradoxes of life that scientists hardly to put on the mathematic equation. History is not made by the enforcement of power but make by the virtues, characters of great men. When one society lacked virtues and goodness, chaos and witty start to dominate society until there are men with virtues, characters, and understanding taking responsibility to make changes.

17.    Looking at large crowd and many people in the society hysterically running and screaming, blaming then getting ill, I understand the power of the mind and the destruction of not understanding.

18.    Reading the autobiographies of great men, leaders and billionaires described since they were the babies, toddlers, youths and adults, many incidents have impacted their life. Then they train the mind and well governed the mind, they, the weak ordinary people, have made the changes and advancements in society. None of the great men said their success and understanding comes from their intelligence. They all value the persistence and characters.

19.    Reading the list of life of billionaires, the autography of most influential people, a great president, and their education, I understand the useless value of formal education, the useless value of boasting degrees, and boasting certification. I am awakened by the value of lifelong learning, persistence, and humility. I understand intelligence, IQ or degree to some extent reflex the abilities, values, and virtues of integrity men: “as within so without”. But with cheating men, they are the good tools to cover all their defects and weakness inside. Some bad men even like to accumulate degree and boast about it to make them temporary satisfy their needs and their greed. Do not listen to the sounding words, just close the eyes and feel the attitude, love, compassion, purposes, the pattern of speech, listen to greedy words, selfish words, you will not be cheated by them. They may be the slave of passions and sensual desires. They build thick covers, sounding words, sounding certificates, and aggressive strong emotions to hide and compensate the weaknesses inside. Never taste the real happiness because of discontentment they constantly accumulate kinds of stuff to create thick, heavy, flashy and catchy covers. “Excessive outer to cover the weakness inside”. All their words will reveal their weakness. In and out are not the same, they start the process of imbalance. Sensitive mind and sensitive brain will silently suffer the imbalance that people do not know if they do not mindful. Then the imbalanced mind will silently control the people to create countless bad cause for them, relatives and all other people described in the law of cause and effect.

20.    The brain, with the weakest, soft, fragile nerve cells in the world, is the softest thing that controls the hardest cells, strongest cells, and whole body’s organ. When brain and cells become much stiffer, and much more rigid, the process of self-destruction will begin. This maybe is the hidden paradoxes pattern of evolution of materials in the universe.

21.    The changes in society are not from the power and intelligence of royal members, but from the characters and virtues of ordinary, weak men: Benjamin Franklin, Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, Socrates, and so on

Observing, watching all phenomena around make me understand that things are interdependent, inter-being, one in all and all in one, this because of that and that because of this. There is no separate self and separate being. Then I awaken that human beings are falling apart from their essence, virtues, and goodness.

Our children may become the victims and creators of the misery of lust, hatred and ignorance. Because of the blind love of parents, ignorant parents support to satisfy the needs of their children quickly and unconditionally. After many time of quick satisfaction, the children become obsessed with happy feelings, they want to have more of happy feelings without putting any efforts. Gradually, they become the greedy children. Because of greed and unsatisfying the greed, they may constantly fall into stress. They may become the victims of stress chemicals, the victims of living condition. To remove the greed and hatred, children need to study more, train more and practice more to gain the knowledge and essential skills. Knowledge can help children stay away from the traps of delusion and ignorance. With knowledge, skills, and patience, children can control the needs, can control the anger and control the behaviors to move forwards noble goals. Children can create joy and happiness for themselves by their ability like characters, skills, and patience. Unfortunately, to gain knowledge, patience and essential skills gained from the hard labors like studying, training and practicing is quite hard and painful at first. Some parents love their children so blindly that they cannot stand seeing their children suffering pain in first working so that they interfere or jump in to help their children. Parents may accidentally take all chances for their children to gain and develop essential skills, knowledge, patience and strong characters. Children with greed, hatred, and ignorance; and without knowledge, patience, and essential skills may be suffering endless pain and stress in their later life. To some extent, the bad characters and the disadvantages of parents may be inherited by their children.
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